15.
TOTAL MENTAL RAPPORT OR
COMPATIBILITY, WITH PHYSICAL CONGRUITY OR BALANCE,
AMOUNTS TO
ULTIMATES DESIRABILITY OR – LOVE.
TOTAL MENTAL COMPLETE, MENTAL AND PHYSICAL, LOVE COMPATIBILITY*(01) COMMON HAPPINESS
(Same sense of values) (Perfect understanding or, never having (Absolute liking) to say that you are sorry)
(01) Mental compatibility is not always – made nor easy, and a period of close (mental) association may be necessary to fix new common goals. During which, mutual respect must suppress any sexual desire, sex before love is cart before horse – cannot even commence.
LOVE REIGNS SUPREME: CONTINUES UNABATED: IS UNIQUE LUST IS PERVERSE, SOON FADES, AND IS COMMON (ANIMAL).HOMOSEXUALITY IS NATURAL……………. OR EXTREME PERVERSITY *(2) BUT CONTROLLED CONCEPTION IS SEXUAL
SAGACITY*(3).
(02) From the very beginning to the very end homosexuality is a deliberate distortion of facts or perversion, where natural incongruity is made to appear and function like a congruity. Evan the friendship part gets twisted. If lust is a disease, then homosexuality is a disability. Homosexuals are appropriately referred to as Queers. They are not gays! Gay guys are good friends.
(03) Proper contraception is vital to utilize fully the most intense pleasure of bodily beings. Islam advocates male circumcision, to prolong and mutually satisfy the act of sex. The same can be achieved by the use of a condom; which is the most effective, hygienic and mutually acceptable from of contraception and sex-aid.
Even a gynoecia – “Manchester Repair” for the middle -aged, multiparous women is a good sex-aid.
15 .B
MARRIAGE IS A LEGAL BOND FOR PROCREATING THE HUMAN SPECIES. THIS MEANS THAT THE
MARRIAGE MUST LAST TILL THE OFFSPRING ARE MATURE-A RATIONAL, NATURAL ASSUMPTION. THERE IS ALSO A REMOTE (MAMMALIAN) NECESSITY FOR MORE THAN ONE WIFE*(1); TO INCREASE OR IMPROVE THE PROG……. THE PROVISION TO TERMINATE EARLY, UNWANTED PREGNANCIES IS MUCH MORE SIGNIFICANT.
LOVE IS THE CONTINUOUS HARMONIZING FOR CONSTRUCTING HAPPINESS, BETWEEN TWO INTELLECTUALLY ADULT HUMANS*(2). HENCE THE ABSOLUTE NECESSITY FOR THEM BEING OF THE OPPOSITE SEXES, AS NATURAL CONGRUITY.
FRIENDSHIP *(3) IS COMPATIBILITY AMONGST HUMANS, UNLIMITED BY AGE OR NUMBERS AND UNQUALIFIED BY GENDER; BECAUSE, CONTINUOUS HARMONIZING IS NOT THE OBJECTIVE, BUT CONSISTENT AGREEMENT. HENCE COMPROMISE NEED NOT EXTEND TO CONVERSION – AS IN LOVE.
15 .C.
!ELABORATING ON MARRIAGE
!A MARRIAGE SHOULD BE PROVISIONAL (A TEST OF COMPATIBILITY) UNTIL THE COUPLE DECIDES TO PROCREATE. ONCE THIS OCCURS VOLUNTARILY (1.E. FERTILIZATION) THE MARRIAGE MUST BE MADE PERMANENT, UNTIL EVERY SINGLE OFFSPRING IS AN ADULT*(1) (1.E 18-21 YEARS OF AGE). THE MARRIAGE SHOULD THEN BE TRANSFORMED TO ONE OF VOLUNTARY COMPANIONSHIP; WHERE TWO INDIVIDUALS CAN STRIVE TO REALIZE REALITY; WITH NO ROOM FOR POSSIBLE INCOMPATIBILITY, JUST CONTINUOUS HARMONIZING BUT ANY SEPARATION, SHOULD ALSO ACCOMMODATE ANY DEPENDENCY.
(01) Any lapse of parental care to keep the family together, should amount to a care.
ELABORATING ON LOVE
FILIAL AND KINDRED AFFECTIONS ARE PHYSICAL BONDS, AND CANNOT MERIT THE TERM LOVE. EVEN “GODS LOVE” IS NOT LOVE BT COMPASSION! LOVE SHOULD SIGNIFY ONLY A CONTINUOUS
HARMONIZING FOR HAPPINESS. AND THIS IS TRULY POSSIBLE ONLY BETWEEN A MATURE MALE AND FEMALE, WHO HAVE THE SAME “SENSE OF VALUES” OR “PRIORITIES” OF LIFE; WHICH COULE AMOUNT TO COMPATIBLE COMPANIONSHIP. HOWEVER, THERE CAN BE NO COMPLETE COMPATIBILITY (AND CONTINUOUS HARMONIZING FOR HAPPINESS) WITHOUT A COMMON GOAL THAT ARISES FROM THE REAL. ALL OF THE LESSER GOALS BASED ON THE APPARENT, AND SUPPORTED BY FAITH OR BE LIFE, ARE FRAGILE. FOR SUCH COMPATIBILITY CAN LAST ONLY TILL THE FAITH OR BELIEF REMAINS INTACT. WHEREAS ANY COMPATIBILITY BASED ON THE REAL IS COMPLETE, AND CAN NEVER BE SHAKEN BY VICISSITUDES OF THE APPARENT. IN OTHER WORDS, THERE COULD BE NO TURNING BACK, EVEN IF ONE WAS ALONE!
*(01) Islamic impressionists have made a mockery of this tenet. Women have been degraded and deprived in other such errors too.
*(02) If there was some love education in schools, there would be no necessity for so much of sex education!
*(03) Parents, children relationship should be one of friendship; based on honesty, mutual regard and compromise – at any and every period. Or, heredity is physical and not mental. Also, failure to ensure a child having a primary, genera science education should amount to criminal neglect.